I think it's really cool y'all give to charity.  There is one charity that has had a big impact on my family, the Injured Marine Semper Fi Fund.

http://www.semperfifund.org/about.html

Basically, the Semper Fi fund covers living expenses during hospitalization and rehabilitation of wounded and critically ill servicemen who have served in or trained for post-9/11 combat.  They also pay for home modifications such as wheelchair ramps, etc. 

My family would have been in deep do-do without this charity organization.  I know there are many patriots and their families who feel the same.  I hope you all will consider them.